I believe we all want to have a fresh start in this coming new year.

To have a better life, better relationship, and better results in every aspects of our lives.

 

So what can we do to ensure that we’ll have a fresh start in January 2010?

 

Well, here’s my simple analogy:

 

Just like our computer, sometimes when it hangs or the applications are not working, the easier and safest way to do is to press the three of the most powerful keys on the keyboard.

Any guess?

 

Yup, it’s the use of CTRL – ALT – DEL that allows us to reboot — to start over.

 

Similarly, we can also use our ‘ctrl-alt-del’ concept to reboot or restart our life.

 

CTRL (Control):

Being in control of your life start by first having a clear direction of what you want in your life.

Create your 2010 resolutions.

Ask yourself: “What do you want to achieve by the end of 2010?”

For me, normally I break down my resolutions into these 7 aspects:

- Career (Awards, Bonus/Incentive, Promotion)

- Family & Friends (Improve relationship, quality time, holidays)

- Health (Weight Loss/Gain, Pysical Fitness, exercise)

- Emotional/Physcological Goal (Persistence, Handle Rejection, Control Anger)

- Education/Intellectual (Skill training, Knowledge, Reading, New Courses)

- Material (New car, bag, laptop, reduce debt, more savings)

- Spiritual

 

ALT (Alternate):

If you want to get different results from what you have in 2009, then don’t be afraid to do things differently.

Come up with alternative solutions, creative new ways on how you can achieve your goals.

It could be things that you probably never done before, but it’s okay, sometimes in life we need to take a little bit of risk if we want to see changes.

 

DEL (Delete):

Whatever bad things that happened in the past or in 2009, just forget about it and move on.  

Do not dwell on it, instead we should learn from it.

Learn from yesterday, live for today, dream for tomorrow.
Use lesson from your past in your present to enrich your future.

At the same time, it also means to delete all negativity in your life and all your bad habits.
Start fresh! Be positive, be optimistic.

 

  

It’s a simple and yet powerful steps.

Do the CTRL-ALT-DEL in your life and you are going to have a wonderful 2010!

 

 

Touching Hearts Changing Lives,

Merry Riana
www.MerryRiana.com.sg

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